It's been a while...
but we're having a great time!
2.13.10 - 3.24.10
75 °F
We have been so caught up in what we are doing in Guatemala, I haven't found one minute to write. But, I want to write so we don't forget everything!
The last time I wrote we had just settled in at our one room cabana in San Pedro. Well, we spent a month in that little house, walking every night to the outdoor bathroom we shared with the Mayan family owners. We LOVED it. Every day was full of Spanish - one on one tutoring every afternoon, studying every morning, improving everyday. Our Spanish teachers became our friends and the Mayan family became our Guatemalan family. After an attempt at cooking inside our one room place with a portable stove, we gave up - after that it was three meals a day cooked by marta, our away mom. Meals were full of veggies, eggs, tomato sauces, refried black beans, and ALWAYS homemade tortillas. At night if you listen carefully you can hear the sound, "clap, clap, clap" of all of the local women making tortillas in their homes...it livens up the night, and is a wonderful tradition that is a lot harder and time-consuming than it sounds. Daily, you will see women walking the streets to bring their bowl of softened, soaked, cooked corn kernels to the place that mushes them all up into tortilla dough. In San Pedro, their is a small "gringo" area, which afforded us meals we were more used to from home, but we kept that to a minimum and mostly stayed on the Mayan diet, which of course, is much healthier than the Western diet. Our teachers started asking us medical questions early on and we were thrilled to help out. On our last day of classes, after the group dinner we shared, Jim's teacher, Magdalena, asked if we had any advice about her elderly mother who had knee pain. "Well," Jim said, "let's go see her." We walked through the lit, cobblestone streets of San Pedro, passing the traditionally-clad women in their colorful embroidered tops, bright belts, and beautiful, long skirts, carrying baskets of who-knows-what on their heads, and the men dressed like US men, and a few old men in traditional gear, through the cement basketball court in the center of town where 50 kids were playing crazy games of basketball mixed with dodge ball, up a hill where we ran into 100s of Mayans carrying a greater-than-life-size statue lit up of Jesus. The procession was stopped at a "station of the cross," composed of 10 Mayan women, a small card table, and 100s of fake flowers brightly lit, where the priest speaks a prayer in Tzutujil (the local Mayan language spoken by most and by some as their only language). We stopped, listened and watched. It was inspirational and very moving for us as during our time here we have come to better understand the example of Jesus and how helping others can be truly inspirational and meaningful. Anyway, as we were watching, a 3 year old strolled up to us and asked Jim's teacher for some gatorade - this three year old boy wondering the street just happened to be her son - different. After he grabbed a drink from mom, he pulled over and pee-ed on the side of the road, and ran off on his way to...who knows, and nobody bothers to follow because everyone knows everyone and everyone is safe. The procession passed and we proceeded around the corner to the big wooden door and brightly painted muraled cement house. We walked in and were greeted very warmly as always by 4 children, mom, and a grandchild, all living under one roof, with a hard cement floor, two twin sized beds, and a card-table alter with Mary on it. Through the back door, which opened into a dirt floored room, probably kitchen/play room, we could hear 4 more children running around. "Mom" was sitting in a chair (the plastic kind we use outdoor at BBQs). An elderly-appearing woman, with a weathered face and the smile of an angel, Mom was hurting. We spoke for a while in Spanish about her problems and we eventually settled on osteoarthritis. We learned mom was 55 (she looked 80) and had 8 children, all under one roof. She walked everyday up and down the cobblestone streets in flip flop shoes. We gave her some aleve and talked about changes she could make in her lifestyle. As we left, she thanked us as though we had brought her a million dollars.
Another touching moment during our stay involved an 11 year old Mayan girl, Luida. Tim, another gringo who had been staying with the family, had noticed that she had an eye that didn't seem to look straight. He asked us to take a look at it, which of course we gladly did, loving any opportunity to pretend we know more than we do! Luida is a polite, adorable, and sweet 11year old who is in the school that the owner has developed for underpriveledged (aka ridiculously poor) Mayan girls to help pay for their education. The Mayan girls are discriminated against because they are girls and because they are "indigenous." In poor families who cannot afford to pay the tuition for school (which is costly after 6th grade) the boys are given preference and the girls stay home to tend the house (which often leads to severe chronic obstructive lung disease in their 40s, but we won't go into that yet). So, Luida has been identified by Marta as one of the girls at risk of being under-educated, over-worked, and pregnant by 13. Marta is an angel in a community that needs many angels and much money. So after we identified that Luida did in fact have a strabismus, Tim took her across the lake with her mother (who only speaks Tzutujil) to the larger town of Panajachel where they have an ophthamologist. But, they were closed. Tim had to leave back to the U.S. and we had to take over. He had agreed to fund her journeys and her schooling and anything she might need to fix her eyes. So, we headed back over to Pana with Luida, her 6 year old sister, her mom, and Antonio, the father of our home-stay to see what we could do. I went into the room with Luida and Antonio and the doctor let Luida know she needed glasses and exercises but had hope of fixing her eye. We visited Luida later when my mom came, and her eye is improving. Something in the US which would never go unchecked or unfixed past 1 year had gone past 11 years. But now, thankfully, she will not be stigmatized as looking "weird" for the rest of her life! Little things here mean so much and inspire us greatly to come back.
At the end of our stay in San Pedro, Jim's parents along with his brother Justin and girlfriend Beth arrived to join us on our journey. After some issues with layovers, everyone arrived safely. We immediately hopped an a "luxury" van with three extra Guatemalans we weren't told about and headed out to Copan, Honduras (luxury = hot, sticky, overpacked, and hot). We saw some ruins and had a blast with the fam. After that we brought them back to lake, where we had been before, and relaxed, ate, drank, and enjoyed a few luxuries (hot showers, indoor toilets, meat). After their visit, Lauren's mom came, and we spent more time around the lake. Casa del Mundo was a hot spot where we spent a few nights with each group, enjoying the delicious family style dinners, jumping off the cliffs into the crystal clear tropical-like agua, sunbathing, and reading on the balconies. We were sad to see our families leave but excited to start at the hospitalito!
More to come later...
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